save UI element externally - tab panel for max2013+

since max2013 xml ui... its not possible to save properly the old tab panel (from max version 3 up to version 5).

its still there in the max core and you can get it to load and customize it as usual, but after a max restart the buttons are gone and the tabs are duplicated...

anyway, i was thinking about a script that would always load at max start.
that script would be able to save an exclusive file for the tab panel (in the format of the old coding) and perhaps for any other UI element as desired.

or if there is another way to make it work by max2013 xml ui...

would something like this be possible?

unfortunate, i do not understand code.

so, is anyone willing to make that script?

thx in adv.